What do women really want in a man?

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It has been said, that women never say what they want, and that they don’t always mean what they say. But one thing is certain, a woman always knows what she wants from a man. Apart from physical attributes and also the undeniable sexual chemistry, a woman also wants more than that which meets the eye. There are some attributes women expect and look for in a man that has nothing to do with his physical features. Some of these attributes are

Confidence
A man who believes in himself, knows who he is, and what he wants, he is very appealing to a woman. Mind you, that’s there’s a difference between high self esteem and overbearing and selfish
Being confident simply means being comfortable with who you are and having full belief in yourself. Women respond to that positive energy a confident man is putting out there.

Trustworthiness
A man that is honest and trustworthy, is highly appealing and desirable to any woman. If he’s truthful, genuine, and speaks from the heart, he’s a guy worth all the shots fired. A man who exudes and embodies truthfulness and honesty is a secret ingredient every woman desires.

Integrity
Having integrity means being virtuous and having strong morals and character. In relationships, having integrity can help strengthen the bond a man shares with a woman, as his moral principles will guide his behavior and help him to be the best partner that he can be.

Compassion
A man who is compassionate and empathetic is highly and extremely attractive to women. Women want men they can open up to without fear of reproach. Having empathy means being able to understand another person’s point of view and can sympathize with what they are passing through. Women are highly interested in a man who possess the ability to show genuine care for people.

Emotional Availability
Women need and are mostly attracted to men who are emotionally honest rather than a man who is cut off and emotionally unavailable. While openly expressing feelings will feel awkward at first, with time it will turn out to be something to not feel strange about.
Women prefer men who are not afraid to show their true feelings instead of men who keep things within and never let’s it out.

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Mutual Respect
In order to have a healthy, happy, and successful relationship, both partners have to treat each other with respect. If a woman feels taken for granted, dispensable, or treated badly by a man, she will drop him in order to avoid a broken heart. A woman will be more attracted to a man who shows her care and gives her the respect she deserves.

Sense of Humor
This attribute has been over emphasized and even over used but that doesn’t reduce its value.

No, you don’t need to be basket mouth, to grasp a woman’s attention, but having the ability to joke around, and have a sense of humor is extremely appealing. A man who exudes a happy, and positive energy into his life and to people around him, will make a woman want to be around him more.

Financial Stability
This one comes last, because a woman who truly wants you will consider this last. But that doesn’t mean that it is not important to be financial capable. No woman wants a liability, every woman wants a man who is financially capable and comfortable. In as much as, relationships are partnerships, no woman wants a man she will need to carry along financially.