A Nigerian lady has narrated how a friend of hers got dumped after sponsoring the finances of her Igbo boyfriend for years.
According to Adeniyi Adeola with username @dearolaa, the man in question used to have nothing, while his girlfriend housed and cater for his needs until life smiled at him.
The moment things got better for him, he dumped Adeola’s friend for other women.
Read her full write up below…
“Fear Men! Fear Men!! Fear Men!!! Especially when he’s Igbo/Ibo. They’re unapologetic cheaters.
“There was this cute guy my friend was seeing, he’s tall dark and handsome with a cool kinda appearance. My friend housed him and fed him when he had nothing.
“For more than 2 years he Lived in her house, she fed him, housed him and banged him. What does a man want from a woman? In short she was there for him. Basically dude is now okay and baby girl is no longer enough for him.
“I feel pained in my heart. Today he’s with a fat girl, tomorrow he’s with another. Now this babe is going through emotional trauma and you think all will be well with you? No. Never. Until you do the right thing.
“Cease being a cheat, stay with your peace and know peace. I mean no offense to Igbo people but one of your brothers has disappointed your clan.”
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Danjuma Matthias: Lemme get this. If it were a lady that a man fed and catered for her all these years, and she decided to dump him, many ladies will be hailing her and be like “she’s right to dump him if she’s not happy with the relationship, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, blah blah blah”.
I’m not endorsing the man’s act, but fair judgement and treatment should be given to all irrespective of who is involved.
Elekima Agada: Why are we all acting like it’s new
People don’t value relationships any more
You give them all your love, while they give their love to others who ain’t worth it.
Ladies saying that’s how men are, I hope you know you guys are worse
Sorry to your friend sha
Uche Ochije: Narrate ur story well
At that time both of them were into each other. As they say change is always constant, he changed and she isn’t happy about the change.
Chioma Ekpechi: Are you sure she treated him really nice or giving him and insulting him? That you housed and fed me doesn’t mean I should ignore when your rubbishing meoooo.